tuesdays with morrie, wednesdays with ib.


so it's another convo with yellow highliter. a convo that i missed and it's been far too long that i had such convos with anyone at all. yes, i do realise how there are times your thoughts get too clouded and you need little reminders like this! (:
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someday we'll know says:
but most pple dont realise that commitment is an inclination
someday we'll know says:
not a commandment
someday we'll know says:
its something that happens naturally
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she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
and you shouldnt will her the way you want her to be right?

someday we'll know says:
well if u want her to be some way
someday we'll know says:
that somethings a lil wrong alredi right
someday we'll know says:
haha that means u want to own her already
someday we'll know says:
if ure fine with the way she is

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
correct.

someday we'll know says:
whats there to will

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
but is there anything wrong with wanting to own a person?
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
i mean at the end of the day , it just fulfills a very inherent need to belong and want something that you can call your own?
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
what about marriage?

someday we'll know says:
there is no inherent need
someday we'll know says:
your want to own and belong stems from a deeper rooted issue within you
someday we'll know says:
same as the insecurity issue
someday we'll know says:
you cant truly accept the way as it is
someday we'll know says:
thats why u create worlds of ure own

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
then everything else in this world will just be dispensable
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
and expendable
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
HAH!
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
that at the end of the day you need no one else
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
cos everyone and anyone can just come and go as they wish.
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
so in the world that you created, you can lose anything/anyone but your mind?

someday we'll know says:
that is the world as it is
someday we'll know says:
people come and go
someday we'll know says:
the flower that you dont see blooms nonetheless

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
and arent you sick of that

someday we'll know says:
haha
someday we'll know says:
why would u be sick of it
someday we'll know says:
uve never had any of it

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
right.

someday we'll know says:
all this while u've been uptight abt being alonee
someday we'll know says:
inability to accept change is the same as not accepting it whether it happens or not

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
so every strand of thought and emotion invested in any social relationship should not be built on the agenda of ownership?

someday we'll know says:
as long as u have the agenda
someday we'll know says:
every thought and emotion will be an investment
someday we'll know says:
but if u act without investment
someday we'll know says:
and u think without expecting return
someday we'll know says:
then there's no pain
someday we'll know says:
no expectation

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
that's so free spirited that it's scary

someday we'll know says:
just the ability to enjoy the person as he/she is
someday we'll know says:
have u had a fling before?

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
yeaps.
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
have you?

someday we'll know says:
flings are different frm relationships
someday we'll know says:
less of expectations

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
and what do you get out of it? temporal companionship

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
no emotional obligation

someday we'll know says:
more carefree affection
someday we'll know says:
of course that flinging is not without its strings

someday we'll know says:
friends with benefits

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
haha!
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
so you are propagating the advantages of FLINGS?

someday we'll know says:
haha if u like to think so

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
but doesnt expectations come with emotional attachments.

someday we'll know says:
im saying that ure prolly alot happier in a fling

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
that is if being happy is the primary objective of your existance.
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
long social relationships
she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
are just flings that are surviving on expired air?
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someday we'll know says:
you need to realise that they can give u nothing u already dont have
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someday we'll know says:
utopia cant be enforced
someday we'll know says:
its a result

she who has a electric stunner and she who uses it on forgetful boys! (: says:
well to me, at least to me utopia is believing in what you want to believe, without the imposition of others' ideals on yours

someday we'll know says:
u dont have to be bothered by other pples ideas
someday we'll know says:
its acceptance that those thoughts are natural
someday we'll know says:
just accept them for what they are
someday we'll know says:
dont be troubled.



thankew . thankew. and yes in 4 years time, if i am ever caught for tax evasion or absconding with some mnc's moolahs, heh heh, i will engage you as my defence attorney.